Monday, April 28, 2008

The Formula of Successes

We all know a thinker thinks and a prover proves. Next, we all know it is really easy to think and make goals and resolutions. It is challenging to get ourselves start making resolutions. It is more challenging to get our resolutions and goal fulfilled. Do you want your resolutions and goals to be realised? Do you? Do you want it to happen?

Do you really want it to happen? Do you feel it is already happening? Are you prepared and comfortable that it is happening?

There will be a lot of preparation work to be done to get things happen, however small and easy it may be. You need action and preparation. In your mind, are you prepared to succeed? Do you want to succeed? Do you enjoy successes?


The formula of Achieving Successes
1. Practice Good Time and Self Management
2. Plans, Learns and fine tuning from past Experiences
3. Identifying , engaging or creating ready/ new Resources
4. Constant renewal of ideas

Good planning of Successes
1. Set a GOAL
2. Start identifying and defining and ready to meet all CHALLENGES
3. Eliminating all OBSTACLES
4. Put to ACTION
5. Understanding and putting good use of your GIFTS

Eight elements to make your GOAL achievable
1. GOAL must be POSITIVE
2. GOAL must be COMPELLING
3. GOAL must be ECOLOGICAL
4. GOAL must have it CONTEXT
5. GOAL must need EVIDENCE
6. GOAL must feel at ease with our VISUAL, AUDITARY and KINESTHETIC (VAK) sense
7. GOAL must be SELF fulfilling
8. GOAL can be achieved with ready or new RESOURCES around us

GOAL can ONLY be achieved when WE WANT TO SUCEED. DO you want to succeed?
More effort must be used to achieve if we ONLY think we want to succeed a GOAL.
Fine tuning of GOAL needed if we ONLY think of succeeding.
THINK and must remember to ACT.

Let us ask ourselves 3 questions before setting up GOALS:
1. Am I WILLING to achieve and task with a new status of success?
2. Do I deserve to succeed and enjoy success ?
3. Are we afraid to succeed?


Let us set ourselves GOALS and ENJOY the joy of SUCCESS! Let us FEEL SUCCESSFUL while we challenge ourselves to meet successes. Let us welcome success. Let us feel at ease with successes. Let us BE SURE people around us benefit and enjoy our successes. Success will come.

Are you a Thinker or a Prover ?

Are you a thinker or a prover?

A thinker thinks and a prover proves. That’s make the difference.

Most of us unconsciously like to prove what we believe and unsafely believe we need to prove. You do get what you prove and people get what they think they will get.

You may have experienced not able to find your keys and you start asking ‘Where are my keys? Where are my keys?’ You may like to try next time ‘I can find my keys. I can find my keys!’

It will be useful for you to note that it is always better to think than to prove. Think you are a millionaire and one day you may be. Think you will be successful and one day you will be. Think your love one will give you a call at the middle of the night and one day she will call.

Prove you will not make it and you will not succeed. Prove you have only one egg on your breakfast table and you will get just an egg.

Because, thinking and proving leads to action to make it happen whatever you are thinking and proving.

Why not you think you will get a One Million Dollars pay cheque and you will get it one day? Isn’t it better to even feel you have already this One Million Dollars waiting your collection than to keep proving and feeling that it is beyond your reach?

I thought I would write one day and I am writing now. I thought you will read this and you are reading now. If I did not think I would write this and did not think you would read this, will I write? Will you be able to read this? I did not prove I could write but I thought I could write. That’s the difference.


Prove it and it will come true as you prove.

I am still thinking of writing so I write again. Not to prove I can write but I just think I can write.

I attended a Multi Level Marketing seminar recently. It was a 4 hours talk. The presentation was well arranged, the speaker was interesting and the talk was never boring. People surrounding me laughed and enjoyed to their fullest, except myself.

Why did I feel bored while the rest enjoy themselves? It’s about proving.

Multi Level Marketing (MLM) has never been in mind that I can achieve much. MLM is never something I think I can do. MLM is never in my mind it is a good business that we can try on. My MIND has been PROGRAMMED since earlier years that MLM is not something I think is suitable for me. Thus my mind keep proving and proving and still proving Even how interesting the talk is about, how convincing the speaker is, how lucrative this business can bring, my mind still keep proving that it is not something I should go into it.

Keep proving leads to action, actions to find excuses. Such actions will make all things proven. Such actions will lead you further from thinking again. Actions that even the rest of your friends see it and convince that you cannot achieve. People around you will unconsciously help to prove your proving.

Often, people with good experience like to prove they know. That kind of proving is a hindrance to something we really need to learn – to unlearn.

Our world will not exist if no one thinks about creating one. There will not be life if no one thinks of creating life. You cannot speak to people in US with a normal voice volume if Alexandra Bell did not think of a voice machine. You can’t fly to Beijing if you no one thinks human can fly, with the help of a machine. That’s the power of thought..Think and shall happen, think and shall receive, think and shall come true.

I had 2 mobile lines and one was expiring. I did not use that line for more than 6 months. 3 days to reach expiry and I was contemplating if I should continue with the line or to give up. I have this very good friend from Sabah. We have not called each other for at least 2 years. I had lost his contact but I was convinced he still keep mine. Thus I told myself to THINK he would call me within 3 days so I could give up my line without total lost of contact with him.

He called me the next day.

That’s the power of thought. That’s the power of thought. That’s the power of thought.

I thought I could write and I am writing. I thought you would read this, and you are reading.